Almost two years ago I gave up eating chocolate.
It was Ash Wednesday 2011 and earlier that day a good friend of mine and I were walking through the train station downtown trying to determine what we were going to get for lunch. Somehow, some way the conversation went from lunch to the fact that it was Ash Wednesday and what I was going to give up for Lent. Now, the question was more of a joke then anything else as I am Jewish, but it got me thinking. What would I give up for Lent if I actually did observe the tradition. I asked a friend (who is also Jewish) of mine what they would give up if they had to give something up. Her response: Chocolate. :P Oh, I'd love to be able to give up chocolate. As I made my way home that evening I got hungry and ironically I had a 3 Musketeers bar on me. I took a bite out of the bar and thought to myself how it was just "ok". I didn't eat anymore of the bar. Instead I spent the remainder of the ride home thinking about how chocolate was no longer enjoyable to me and if it really would be so difficult to give it up. That's when I decided to try to go the duration of Lent without chocolate. At first it wasn't easy. However, as one might imagine it got easier as time went by. Part of that ease had to do with my willpower.
Willpower is not something I think about consciously about most of the time. Most of the time I just do things that come naturally to me, but at the end of the day there have been times when I have had to consciously think about. Though I believe I have a good handle on willpower, I wanted gain a better understanding on the topic. This is where The Willpower Test by award winning psychologist Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D. comes into play.
Based on a continuing education class "The Science of Willpower" Dr. McGonigal designed for Standford University, this book takes readers through the ins and outs of willpower. The idea behind the book was to take readers through her ten week course which includes the reader implementing the material into their own life. Yes, readers of this book are encouraged to pick something they believe could be helped by willpower as a basis for the exercises in this book. I think a person gets the most out of this book if they do the exercises.
I like the way the sections of this book are titled. They were light and catchy. For example, "From Saints to Sinners". They were definitely made me want to dig into the information. In regards to the information, it was understandable and interesting. I didn't feel like I needed to have a Ph.D. to understand what was being said nor did I feel it was drab and painful to get through as some books with similar formats might be.
Overall, this book gave interesting insight on the topic of willpower and has an interesting approach too.
Disclosure: This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club but the opinions expressed are my own.
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Thursday, November 15, 2012
BlogHer Book Club Book Review: "My Life Map: A Journal to Help You Shape Your Future"
On Thanksgiving it will be two years since I put together what I then called My Life Map. I was in the midst of trying to figure out what I wanted to be when I "grew-up" and gave myself three options to explore.
As you might imagine, it seemed very appropriate when I recently got the opportunity to review the book, My Life Map: A Journal to Help You Shape Your Future by Kate Marshall and Dave Marshall.
Unlike my "life map" project 2 years ago, this books provides individuals a more structured and thoughtful way to approach planning for the future... and even though I am less of a planner than I once was I still feel as though it never hurts to lay some sort of foundation for the future.
The first think I feel is important to note about this book is that it is not a traditional book. As the title reflects, it is a journal. The majority of the pages have spaces for the reader to write down their thoughts, feelings and aspirations. I liked this. Though some people could put something similar together, I liked the format Kate and David developed.
One thing that caught me off guard was that the program requires you to look back in order to plan to move forward. I say this caught me off guard because I feel we are often told not to focus on the past and to only look at our present and future. Also, for some looking back can be an emotional challenge they don't want to taken on.
Overall, I liked this program and can see where it would provide value to a person. I don't know that it should be the sole structure for someone, but it is surely a useful tool. The thing I liked the most about it was that it is a tool for people of any age. Whether you're in your 20s just starting out or in your 50s starting over yet again this journal can be a good framework to use to get started with putting together goals you wish to achieve.
Lastly, I want to say that this is not a journal you can complete in just a couple of hours. It takes time to really go through the steps which personally I think is a good idea since this is your future you're planning for.
Interested in learning more about the book, My Life Map: A Journal to Help You Shape Your Future? Join the BlogHer Book Club discussion!
Disclosure: This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club but the opinions expressed are my own.
As you might imagine, it seemed very appropriate when I recently got the opportunity to review the book, My Life Map: A Journal to Help You Shape Your Future by Kate Marshall and Dave Marshall.
Unlike my "life map" project 2 years ago, this books provides individuals a more structured and thoughtful way to approach planning for the future... and even though I am less of a planner than I once was I still feel as though it never hurts to lay some sort of foundation for the future.
The first think I feel is important to note about this book is that it is not a traditional book. As the title reflects, it is a journal. The majority of the pages have spaces for the reader to write down their thoughts, feelings and aspirations. I liked this. Though some people could put something similar together, I liked the format Kate and David developed.
One thing that caught me off guard was that the program requires you to look back in order to plan to move forward. I say this caught me off guard because I feel we are often told not to focus on the past and to only look at our present and future. Also, for some looking back can be an emotional challenge they don't want to taken on.
Overall, I liked this program and can see where it would provide value to a person. I don't know that it should be the sole structure for someone, but it is surely a useful tool. The thing I liked the most about it was that it is a tool for people of any age. Whether you're in your 20s just starting out or in your 50s starting over yet again this journal can be a good framework to use to get started with putting together goals you wish to achieve.
Lastly, I want to say that this is not a journal you can complete in just a couple of hours. It takes time to really go through the steps which personally I think is a good idea since this is your future you're planning for.
Interested in learning more about the book, My Life Map: A Journal to Help You Shape Your Future? Join the BlogHer Book Club discussion!
Disclosure: This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club but the opinions expressed are my own.
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